So as I'm planning out the seating chart I've come to a realization that while 8 per table is "ideal", it's not happening. At first we were going to only have 1 table of 10 - "the kids table" - however, FFIL's family is from OOT and won't know anyone else there. There are 10 of them (FFIL, his gf, FI's grandpa, 2 aunts, 2 uncles, 3 cousins). Should I put them together?
Out of the 3 cousins... 1 is 12, 1 is 9 (brother & sister) and the other is 21. The 21 year old drinks with her parents so it wouldn't be "lame" to sit with them, but should I consider moving her to a table with less people (with people her age but nobody she would know) or no? Should I ask her or would that be awkward?
TIA to those spending their Saturday night on TK