Hi ladies,
One of my BM have taken upon herself to orchestrate my bachelorette party. I think it is nice of her and I wasn't exactly wanting one (penis straws are nasty) but she insisted and promised me said straws would not make an appearance. Well, today when I checked my facebook I noticed she sent me an event notice for my bachelorette party in May. The one thing I noticed right off was the other girls invited. I had assumed it was only going to me and the four BMs and possibly a couple of other friends (I don't have that many girlfriends). A lot of the girls and women she invited are not on the guest list for the wedding due to budget constraints and the fact they are more her friends and not mine. I know not to invite people to a shower if they aren't invited, but is the same true for a bachelorette party? I would feel awkward receiving gifts from someone, if they choose to get a gift, and they aren't invited to the wedding. I just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I feel its too late to correct anything since she had already sent out an invite via FB to these ladies. So, am I facing an ettiquette faux pas by letting her invite every girl she knows? Thanks in advance.
