I am getting married Oct 9 and I'm not having any bridesmaids, etc.
My aunts want to throw me a shower but the first weekend that works is September 12.. Is that too close to my wedding? We were planning on keeping it small.
The date has two reasons. 1. my aunt has MS, and it's just too hot for her to do much before then. We just didn't get around to doing it before it heated up. 2. I only have two first cousins and neither can make it to my wedding.
The other issue is my 30th birthday is September 29th, and I was going to have a party September 18 (since I didn't want it close to my wedding).
Also, there are people I would invite to my birthday that I wasn't going to invite to my wedding (professional friends, etc). Does that seem too close and kind of weird?
I'm thinking about bailing on the birthday celebration and just having a big party on my 31st.