So, I know that it is impolite to invite someone to the shower and reception without inviting them to the wedding, but what about the bachelorette?
I have several girlfriends that are awesome to party with, but we just aren't close enough for me to fit them into our 50 person guest list. They have expressed interest in joining in on the bachelorette party, and i know we'd have fun. They've never mentioned an invite to the wedding, so I don't think they're assuming that they'd be coming, and I've stressed several times that its a small wedding, so I'm fairly sure they get that.