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mikemissy08

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Mrs.B6302007

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:fbd777ba-c67a-4bd5-9794-faef90d3cf3d">"future" mother in law</a>:
[QUOTE]Should we invite my future mother in laws boyfriend that she's been seeing for 1 month to our wedding party? We have yet to meet him and in 2 weeks we are going to Las Vegas for a week and getting married and when we get back, we're having a wedding party at my parent's house. She called the other day and begged to invite him. What should we do??
Posted by mikemissy08[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>She says she's in a relationship so yep, he gets invited.</div>

brilibby4

Yes, he should definitely be invited. 

Snippylynn

I don't understand why you wrote "future" like that.

And this is clearly a no-brainer. 

brilibby4

Also, why did you put the word future in quotation marks in your title?  Is she not really your future mother in law?

Maggie0829

Yes he should be invited.  Since she considers herself to be in a relationship then the SO gets invited.  This really shouldn't have been a question and she certainly should not have had to call begging you to get him invited.

andrea2473

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:2d1a91dc-28cf-47bc-8270-e0d867bf7a60">Re: "future" mother in law</a>:
[QUOTE]"Yes, her new boyfriend should be invited."
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

I've been a lurky-loo today and your responses are consistently cracking me up.

pkontk

Yes.  She called and begged you to invite him and you still had to ask if you should?

JessAndTrav

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:ab45f8bb-ef05-460e-8c45-85d0da097a27">Re: "future" mother in law</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to "future" mother in law : They're dating.  You invite him.  Also, this is your FMIL we're talking about.  Why did you even have to think about this?
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]

From now on, I'm not even going to read what you post, and I'm just going to say, "What Edie said."

Girlie1030

A DD?  For Pete's sake.

AceTT

DD after you were quoted about five times? Just pure silliness!

ootmother2

I understand why you don't really want to acknowledge the relationship but be the graceful one here.  It's your mother's SO and he should absolutely be invited.

JessAndTrav

I bet she put future in quotation marks since she doesn't know if you can actually refer to your dog's mother as a FMIL.

Too soon?

JessAndTrav

BTW,  I'm assuming that any poster with a stupid question is a troll today.

I'm grouchy.

crash2729

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:c20c6db2-f8f5-4ec2-af8b-24f43359b71d">Re: ...</a>:
[QUOTE]I bet she put future in quotation marks since she doesn't know if you can actually refer to your dog's mother as a FMIL. Too soon?
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]
DED.

Lizzieyounce

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:c20c6db2-f8f5-4ec2-af8b-24f43359b71d">Re: ...</a>:
[QUOTE]I bet she put future in quotation marks since she doesn't know if you can actually refer to your dog's mother as a FMIL. Too soon?
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>Wine through nose.</div>

annie912

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:c20c6db2-f8f5-4ec2-af8b-24f43359b71d">Re: ...</a>:
[QUOTE]I bet she put future in quotation marks since she doesn't know if you can actually refer to your dog's mother as a FMIL. Too soon?
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

But she doesn't want to be too nice because FMIL is a bi(i)tch.

andrea2473

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:1af6d738-7264-4a76-b523-cd3638db4b2d">Re: ...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ... : It's her FI's mom, and why wouldn't they want to acknowledge the relationship?  Did I miss something in a different post?
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

Nope.  That was it. 

AceTT

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:c20c6db2-f8f5-4ec2-af8b-24f43359b71d">Re: ...</a>:
[QUOTE]I bet she put future in quotation marks since she doesn't know if you can actually refer to your dog's mother as a FMIL. Too soon?
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]
Bahahahaha

AceTT

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_future-mother-in-law?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:74c7dfe7-1f2c-4c37-954a-a40549f92956Post:3e901a8b-e746-4c6f-8ec3-93ec690b2617">Re: ...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: ... : But she doesn't want to be too nice because FMIL is a bi(i)tch.
Posted by annie912[/QUOTE]
I can't decide if Jess's comment or yours was funnier!! Literally LOLing here

ski2play

Not too soon!  Badda Boom!