My Fiance and I are disagreeing about whether to invite a friend to the wedding. I should say that she is originally his friend, although we (did) consider her a reasonably good friend to both of us.
It was our engagement party recently, and this friend RSVPd as attending. Two days before the party, I received an email from her saying that she had found out her uncle was having a surprise birthday party that night, and there would be family there she hadn't seen for a while, and as such wanted to spend time with them - so she couldn't come to the party. This was fine with us.
Turns out that a few days later pictures were posted on facebook, showing her at a dance party. I'm really upset as she purposefully lied and misled us about why she couldn't come. I say that if it's not that important to her (and a dance party is more) then why should she be invited to our wedding. My Fiance doesn't think it's so bad. I don't want to take a spot up with someone who doesn't value truth and a friends' engagement. What do people think?