Brutal honesty please!
- Not wanting the BMs to sleep over night before the wedding. I just want it to be me and fiance, but for some reason it seems like every bride stays at her parents with her BMs. Is that rude?
- Friday wedding at 5pm
- cucpakes, not cake
- DJ at my ceremony, not live music
- At the reception, have the Dj dedicate a song and have all of the married couples on the dance floor for a dance
- 1 hour break between ceremony and reception for pictures. Ceremony and reception are in the same location, and the cocktails and canapes are on the patio for guests
- me not giving a speech at my wedding. FH will do it, but I just really don't want to have to worry about saying a long winded speech
- no receiving ling - table visits
- sweetheart table - not sitting with our WP
- no STDs
- no veil
- leaving for honeymoon the day after the wedding when OOT guests are still here
- no garter toss, bridal party dance, or kissing games
- there is a hotel on site where many guests are staying (because it's a friday, we took the room discount and the rooms are less than $50) and we don't want to stay with our guests. Our flight for our honeymoon leaves at 11am the next day, so we want to take a cab after the reception and stay at at the hotel by the airport
- No RD - rehearsal at 7pm day before, and then going to a bar where we will buy beer, pop, other drink, and pub food for the 20 people invited