How do I handle this?
My mom is paying for the wedding. Her and my FI both dont want Co-MOH. I dont really want it either. Im pretty low key and I stay away from drama. How do I handle this without stepping on any toes?
I have TWO best friends who I grew up with and are very close to. It was a tough decision when choosing my MOH but I choose the one who is more similar to me and who would more likely support my decisions.
When asking them to be a part of my wedding party, I invited both of them to participate in the planning and most of the MOH duties because I knew they would love to do them together but I made it clear that there is only one MOH but I still love them equally.
They both seemed thrilled and happy that they can do it together and respected my decision of asking them to be MOH and BM. Even the BM told me I made the right decision of choosing our other friend to be the MOH.
A few nights ago, after a night of drinking my BM came to me begging me to think about giving her the title of Co-MOH. She declared that she is going to be in charge of the B-party and she is going to get me a stripper. She is known to be a wild child and I am not, neither is my MOH... so that is one of the main reasons I choose my MOH because I know she would listen to my wishes and not plan anything crazy for my b-party.
Since we were drinking, Im not sure how serious my BM was and if maybe she was sharing her honest sober thoughts. I dont want to hurt her feelings and since both girls are my best friends, I want to include both of them as much as possible without the other being left out.
How do I fix this?? Do I ignore it?
