Wedding is 40 days away! I wish I hadn't had bridesmaids at all, because now I am feeling so disappointed in them that I would be fine never talking to them again! They have not helped with any aspect of the wedding planning, didn't throw me a shower or bachelorette party, and shuddered when I mentioned minor tasks I needed them to do on the actual wedding day. I think they think all they are doing is playing dress up.
To the point, one has a boyfriend who told her she was not to help me get ready or spend time with me before my ceremony because he didn't want to have to hang out by himself for a few hours. How do I tell her that this is ridiculous without sounding like a bridezilla?
2nd bridesmaid just dyed her hair a trashy purple/red color. WHY did she have to do this right before the wedding? My fiance told me to tell her to dye it back because he didn't want it ruining our pictures, but I think it is super nutty to do so. Who is right, me, him, her?
Thanks!