Due to the fact my FI and I are paying for the wedding, we are asking those that can to find a baby sitter for the wedding. We have a daughter ourselves and there will be some kids that are in the wedding party there and a few others that are coming in from out of town that have to bring their kids but again it's very limited. After putting a "first draft" invite list together I saw their was a possibility of 30 kids if everyone brought them, when you only have 150 people you can invite, that's A LOT. Plus, it's our wedding not a play date. So, the kids that will be there will retreat to a room with T.V., video/board games at about 8:30/9pm and we have hired a counselor from the local YC to come watch the kids that will be there.