One of my bridesmaids just started dating someone a couple months ago. When my FI and I made our guest list, they were not dating. We are now 2 months away from the wedding and invitations are going out. We are already a little over on our guest list (mostly because we know a lot of family are not coming) and we can't really keep adding people. We decided to send the invitation to just her, but I would like to offer for him to come as long as our RSVPs are under the number we had planned.
The other issue is that my single BMs feel like they should've been given the option to bring a guest if this other BM gets to bring her boyfriend. We unfortunately can not afford to have everyone do that.
Did I mess this whole thing up? Please let me know your thoughts.