I surely wish everyone posted their invites on here before they sent them out to get printed. We just got an invite in the mail from FH close friend back home, a 4 hour plane ride for us. We had truly thought about going for a quick weekend since its right before our wedding. Well on the invite we recieved today, the outer envelope is addresses to me, FH, and our 2 year old. The actual invite says adult only reception to follow, which believe me I fully understand if we didn't have a 2 year old, ours would be the same. So basically, our son is invited to the ceremony, but not the reception?? I'm so greatfull we didn't book our airfare yet, since we would have no one there to watch our son for the reception. Their save the date Also had our sons name on it.