happy monday all...
we're having a fairly small wedding in las vegas and there are a number of older relatives that we know aren't going to be able to attend. i'm struggling with what to do regarding invites.
part of me doesn't want to invite them because it would seem like asking for a gift and we really don't want gifts. really, we don't.
the other part of me was thinking that if they found out that i got married and they weren't invited, they might be upset.
i was thinking that i could send a note with it that said something along the lines of 'i know you won't be able to attend, but i wanted you to have this anyway.' but if i got that, i would still send a gift. well, lets be honest, no matter what someone says, unless i really, really don't like them, if i get an invite, they get a gift.
how would you handle?