Soo my wedding is going to have only close family at the wedding and reception since this is all we can afford right now. However, our church where we currently live as well as FI's home church have both mentioned wanting to give us a bridal shower. I don't know what to do in this situation because most of the people at the shower will not be invited to the wedding since it's family-only. Both churches are aware that we're only inviting family though. So I'm not sure what the proper way to handle this situation is. Any idea what I should do in this situation?