Ok so I'm going to try real hard to make this not come out bitchy. I have asked my cousin, who has mostly been like a much younger sister, to be a bridesmaid. Last week she announced to me that she is pregnant and is thrilled. Only her parents and I know this information and they are going to keep it as quiet as possible as they are embarrassed to tell the rest of the family. (The family is pretty old school). Not to mention that fact that she's 19, hasn't come close to finishing school, has no job, and lives at home with boyfriend, mom and dad. She has told me that she understands if I decide not to have her in the wedding but my concern was to whether she would be comfortable up on display in front of everyone. I hate to tell her she can't be in the wedding but part of me is so upset with her about this entire "situation" and I don't want to parade her around as if I'm ok with it.
Any input would be great.