So, I'm in a dilema and need some feedback:
We are having a small wedding almost to the point of inviting folks that would be invited if we eloped. We sent the save-the-dates and there were plenty of cousins or other people not invited for this reason. We did not put my FH cousin on one of the save-the-dates and the parents have talked to my FMIL about bringing their adult daughter in which she was not on the Save-the-date. My FMIL does not want to hurt their feelings by telling her brother they cannot bring their daughter. Keep in mind my FH only met his cousin once.
How to inform the uncle of this?