Hi ladies,
I'm not sure where to post this but I have a bit of an issue with an ex co-worker who I was close with when she worked with me. When I got engaged I talked to her and said I would invite her. Fast forward to now, I have not spoken to her. There was some drama at work when she left. I found out recently from my other co-worker presently that it has been hard for her to move on and difficult to see me and those that she worked with.
Many of the people from my work that I am inviting are close to me and we socialize outside the workplace. She hasn't reached out to me at all and mind you I haven't either because she has just been childish about her leaving and feeling that she had been replaced by another co-worker when that's not the case.
Anyways back in August I told her that I would invite her and obviously I had no clue that our relationship would change. I know that is my fault for inviting her so early. I will likely sit her with work people because that is who she knows if I were to extend an invitation. However, she has apparently said to another worker that she feels uncomfortable around us (I know, work gossip). At this moment, I am thinking twice whether to still giver her an invitation. I feel like we have lost out of touch. I know she might be hurt if I don't invite her and I would feel really bad about that. At the same time, I don't want to invite someone because I feel bad. I don't know, does this make sense?
My mother is throwing me a shower in June so I need to figure out if an invite should be sent to her therefore extending an invite to the wedding. Thoughts?