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big problem with fh's best friend...

so we've been engaged for quite a few months now, and are getting married in about a year. However, fh's best friend is getting to be a HUGE asshole to me (over the past year). I put my foot down yesterday and told him exactly how he made me feel. The thing is, both fh and his best friend are marines, so I haven't really spent much time with the friend, but I know this will be an issue once we are living together and then married.
Has anyone had a problem like this????
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Re: big problem with fh's best friend...

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_big-problem-fhs-friend?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:7ea60f18-051f-4e28-8df1-94fee50c1961Post:dbd54139-1a59-4ca1-8e46-c96508b7e955">Re: big problem with fh's best friend...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yes, the issue is between you and his friend, but he was friends with your fiance first. If your fiance isn't willing to tell his friend that he needs to cut it out, then you do have an issue. My husband would not stand for his friends being a jerk to me, and I wouldn't be a jerk to my husband's friends - its about respect. My husband doesn't like a couple of my friends (because no one likes everyone) but he's polite to them.
    Posted by brookelynpaisley[/QUOTE]

    thank you... I have asked him to talk to him, which I did not do before because I didn't really consider it HIS problem. but you all have kind of hinted at that it IS since it could be a problem in the future, that he should stand up for me.
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