How would you address to Dr. and Mr.??

Mrsbtobe2012

I have a friend who is female and Dr., her fiance is just a Mr. until after finishing his degree. How would you address their invite envelope?
Dr. Jane Doe and Mr. John Smith?
Mr. John Smith and Dr. Jane Doe?

Confused here!

mbuckley85

Well I believe her name comes first since she is the one you have the relationship with, right?  Regardless of whether she's a Dr. or not.

LaceyH13

Dr. Jane Doe
Mr. John Smith
Address
City, State   ZIP

aragx6

If they're not married they go on separate lines.

Dr. Jane Doe
Mr. John Smith

edit: Actually Crane says Doctor should be spelled out. So I'd go with that.

crash2729

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[QUOTE]<strong>Well I believe her name comes first since she is the one you have the relationship with, right? </strong> Regardless of whether she's a Dr. or not.
Posted by mbuckley85[/QUOTE]
I don't think so. 
I would think it would be Mr.John doe and Dr. Jane doe. OR Dr. and Mr. John Doe. (Don't seperate the mans title from his name...right?<div>
</div><div>ETA: I'm wrong. Reading fail. Never mind me.</div>

Mrsbtobe2012

We are friends with both members of the couple. Just one has completed school, one has not.

mica178

Dr. Jane Doe

Mr. John Smith

Address

City, State, Zip

Kate61487

Ladies first if you're equally close to the couple.  and like PPs said since they're not married they go on separate lines.

theelusive1

The doctor comes first.

annmarie714

Doctor Female name (despite title--females go first)
Male name (seperate line since they're not maried)
123 ABC Street
City, State 12345

melb2013

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[QUOTE]If they're not married they go on separate lines. Dr. Jane Doe Mr. John Smith edit: <strong>Actually Crane says Doctor should be spelled out. So I'd go with that.</strong>
Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Hmmmm I didn't know this... I think I have to redo my invite list AGAIN!</div><div>
</div><div>The woman's name goes first, regardless of the relation.  That's always what I've been taught, anyway. 

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samanthaeisner

I have a similar question... my female boss has her PhD and goes by Dr.  Would her invitation be addressed Mr. and Dr. John Smith?

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

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[QUOTE]I have a similar question... my female boss has her PhD and goes by Dr.  Would her invitation be addressed Mr. and Dr. John Smith?
Posted by samanthaeisner[/QUOTE]

Technically PhDs don't go by "doctor" socially. BUT if this is a sticky subject for her, just go with Doctor and Mr. John Smith (woman's title goes first).

My stepfather is one of THOSE PhDs who insists on going by doctor, so I addressed his invitation as such.

samanthaeisner

At work we address her as Dr. and in social situations I address her as Dr. because she's never told me otherwise.  I'll ask my friend who is getting married 2 months before me what she did.  Thanks!