http://moms.today.com/_news/2011/10/04/8128080-excluded-why-dont-you-want-my-special-needs-kids-at-your-wedding
People like this "aunt" make my blood boil... I hope her typically developing nieces & nephews show up in bright orange and lime green, cause a scene, and knock her cake over.
(Sorry if this is a re-post. I didn't see it though...)