Can i NOT invite..(not a sister, i PROMISE)

khewesmccoy

...or anyone else that is blood related.

My moms "best friend" is not on my guest list. She was never really close to us, I can only remember a hand full of times that I've actually spent time with her.

Recently, she said some pretty mean things to me, commented on the way my mother and raised my sister and I (she was upset because of our facebook statuses..REALLY?)

Also, long story short, my mom borrowed money from her and never paid her back. "Auntie" called my dad, and told him. He was more then willing to make it right, but asked that she write him some sore of receipt, to keep for his records. She BLEW up, said every curse word in the dictionary and THEN some...and AGAIN, never apologized.

I'm paying for this wedding alone (not FI and I, just me..from savings) and I I don't feel the need for her to be there. Yes, she was my moms best fried in High School, and yes, she's my daughters god-mother (out of respect for my mom...some stupid family tradition) 

Am I wrong?

leayn

i am not inviting anyone who makes me want to punch a unicorn when i see their face...but that is just me.  there will be plenty of other people there for your mom to hang out with, and i am sure she understands that.

JennaV26

If you disliker her this much don't invite her. It's your wedding, you're paying for it, end of story.

lynchhk30

It's not like you'll sever and ties that haven't already been severed! (sp?)  I doubt it would make things any worse, or make her act any more crazy than she already is.