Sorry if this is a repeat question, which I am sure it is, but I wanted to go into detail. My fiance and I do not particularly want children 5 or under at the wedding. I am thinking about including some sort of wording on the RSVP card along the lines of "A nursery will be provided for children 5 and under, Will you be needing to use the facilites?" However, I want it worded in a way that the guests know that it is not really an option for children to be there. I do not want to offend anyone either. But the real problem is I believe that my cousin who will have a very young baby at that point will think that she is the exception to the rule. I do not know how to approach this subject without seeming like a bridezilla.