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No you are too young!

I feel like writing this to one of my fb friends but instead I will offer support. He just found out his girlfriend is pregnant. He's 21, she's 18. It's just freaking me out a bit because I used to baby sit him in high school and will forever remember the cute little 10 year old boy who used to show me cool bugs.

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Re: No you are too young!

  • Aww...I was looking at a picture of a girl who I used to babysit and she's now graduating high school and hot!
  • Yeah, I used to help out with dance classes. I found out a few years ago that a girl I taught 3rd grade jazz emsemble too was studying poly sci at Georgetown.
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  • Is she still in highschool? If not, it's not ideal, but not uncommon.

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  • I think she graduated last June, but not 100%. If not she'd be graduating this june which would put her about 6 months pregnant.

    Sadly this is super common for my hometown. My senior year in high school we had 17 out of 50ish girls who were pregnant, 10 by the same guy.

    In my "hometown" group I'll be the last to have kids. Most my grade or a year older have 2 or 3, most younger than me have at least 1.
  • I've been at bars with kids I babysat.  It's a little weird. 
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  • My brother was a month away from 21 when his daughter was born.  SIL was 20.  While it was not ideal, both families gave them great support . 15 years later they are still together and happy.

    There can be hope. If they have a good support system they can ended up having a great kid.


    btw - I went to a bar after a high school play.  The cast of the play was  in the bar drinking at the table next to ours. Now that was weird.






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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_young?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:84a7efb2-9941-4d93-965a-18b013aafde7Post:e44dba56-8c25-421a-b28b-7b510731afb7">Re: No you are too young!</a>:
    [QUOTE]My senior year in high school we had 17 out of 50ish girls who were pregnant, <strong>10 by the same guy</strong>.
    Posted by katiewhompus[/QUOTE]

    WHAT????
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_young?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:84a7efb2-9941-4d93-965a-18b013aafde7Post:11dfa35a-fa9c-42ca-a6bb-c79bc8725f96">Re: No you are too young!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: No you are too young! : WHAT????
    Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

    Holy crap!
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  • no seriously elaborate on the 10 girls same daddy
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