For my wedding I had not included children because it wasnt in our budget. I would have loved for all my friends and fam to bring a lot of their younger kids but my fiance and I just can't afford it...Well here is my problem. My cousin is in the Military. He is stationed in Afganastan right now but his wife is going to be in California around the time of my wedding. She sent back the RSVP that she and their two childern would be attending. I hadn't included them in the gust list so I don't know what to do. The only children that will be at the wedding will be my nephews and cousins daughter (there in the wedding party). I know she is family but I would feel bad letting her bring her kids and then telling everyone else they can't bring their kids. Do I just contact her and tell her that the kids cannot come????....Please HELP!!!!