This may be a no-brainer, but I want to make sure I do the right thing. My sister-in-law (also a bridesmaid) and two matrons of honor in Ohio are collaborating to throw a shower up there for my family and friends who live up there, (I live in TN, but from OH) and my soon to be sister-in-law (also a bridesmaid) down here is throwing a shower for family and friends living here in TN. I once read that it is appropriate to invite bridesmaids to all showers, and the many times I have been a bridesmaid, I think I remember being invited to multiple showers. Is this the appropriate thing to do?