Yikes!!!

Stackeye210

Honors sash has procreated with her cheating boyfriend.  OMG.  Poor child. 

SarahPLiz

Whoa.. I thought they weren't together anymore.. Link??

EDIT: Apparently she was cheating on him too. maybe we'll see her honor sash on Maury one day

http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_not-gon-cry

sarabellam

Link please.

Stackeye210

They weren't.  Something along the lines of he cheated, then she cheated, then he moved in with his ex.  Some drama filled thing like that. 


http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_am

SarahPLiz

I am amazed at the puppies and rainbows and that one one said "just because you have a kid doesn't make him not cheat"

But If I posted it there, they'd know I was just preying on her ignorance.

Stackeye210

I know Sarah.  Nobody can post there and tell the truth because then it gets all ugly.  It is ONLY acceptable to post puppies and rainbows on that board. 

sarabellam

Holy Mary mother of God she is a hot mess! Looks like that honors sash didn't help her out much in real life.

bbyckes

wow... that's um.. unfortunate. 

kate51485

Oh sweet lord.  This makes my day.

aMrsin09

I can't tell if the baby is her ex-bfs or the guy she cheated with.  Did she ever specify?

kate51485

Good point, aMrs.  I am assuming it is with the bf, though. 

bbyckes

 Well everybody, i had my hopes up to high, me and my bf broke up. He cheated on me a while back, well as hurt as i was i forgave him but i ended up cheating back on him because i was so hurt, the biggest mistake of my life. He told me he was hurt because i did it back to him, at that time it didn't phase me because he lied and cheat. Now he says he is in love with his ex-girlfriend , i was so hurt and devastated because we were just working things out. He then told me he wanted to work things out between us right, i said okay because i love him so much, well now he broke up with me and move in with his ex Which the only reason he is doing it because she broke the windows in his car and slashed his tires and then told him i did it and he believed her. I am so hurt that he would do me like this that's why i am through with his confusing ways and i am moving on with my life, i have no time for the games, my heart has feelings and my heart can not take anymore pain and im done crying..but i will still come online and talk to you ladies because you all are an inspiration to me and i love you all for that.  thanks ladies for the best advice.

Talk about a fuucking trainwreck.  I wanted to say something on the AA board, but dare not.  They should have lambasted her.  This is the most ridiculous shiit ever. 

kate51485

I just feel like if anybody posted anything logical about the situation, especially if they were (gasp) not AA, they'd get accused of invading the bored and torturing the poor girl, etc.  Bah. 

bbyckes

Kate, unless it's a reg on that board regardless of whether they were AA or not, they would not take kindly to the "invasion."  Someone needs to talk to that chick.  She is seriously effing up her life.

AmoroAgain

Shoot Coff, she's about to eff up the life of the baby too.  Yeesh.

Reality is not happiness and butterflies people.  Just because you stick your head in the sand and refuse to see what's really happening, doesn't keep it from happening.

Stackeye210

Capri I post over there on occasion and the girls are VERY friendly.  The problem is when someone like her needs REAL advice they just keep being friendly.  Which is exactly why she continues to give that board updates.  I'm not knocking the board, - that's how they want it to be and to stay. 

And as far as effing up her life..........she has already done that permanently. 

kate51485

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_yikes-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:883751bb-080c-457a-a8bd-4a05c3889a00Post:5f380447-a8dc-4817-a8e6-5f6be7165c9c">Re: Yikes!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]She is seriously effing up her life.
Posted by bbyckes[/QUOTE]

It's sad.  I think I would be scared to get back involved with someone whose other ex is known to bust windows out of cars and flatten tires...I would not want to expose my kid to that kind of crazy looming in the background. 

AmoroAgain

Weren't they really nasty to you once though Stack? I seem to recall this back when there was "invasion" stuff happening.

salt78

Woah what?? It's too early in the morning for all this madness!

BecW2be

Jeeeeezus. WTF? I've heard mention of that basket of BSC, but I never looked her up or read posts. She is a special breed of FUBAR.

Stackeye210

No, that board wasn't.  It was just that particular girl on chit chat and P&E.  The board just didn't want that drama being brought there and I explained what happened (the truth version since they only knew her little whack version) and basically they told the girl she needed to calm herself down if she wanted to post there anymore.  She came back with an apology (to the board) and puppies and rainbows continued. 

bbyckes

I still can't believe they were CONGRATULATING  her on the pregnancy.  They should have been wishing that baby all the luck in the world.  I'm sick.

AmoroAgain

Oooh okay.

georgia_bride09

She needs a new sash that says Hot Mess. I wonder how long her BF will be around this time. I bet she'll be telling him buh-bye again before her "little bean" ::gag:: is born.

salt78

The fact that they are all congratulating her is making me ill too. Someone needs to knock some sense into that girl. Isn't she only 18?

Stackeye210

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_yikes-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:883751bb-080c-457a-a8bd-4a05c3889a00Post:f6b1402a-aa0d-461f-95dd-032e3903e618">Re: Yikes!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]She needs a new sash that says Hot Mess. I wonder how long her BF will be around this time. I bet she'll be telling him buh-bye again before her "little bean" ::gag:: is born.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

I wanna say at some point she said he already had one or two other children's mothers.  (don't quote me on that, but I vaguely remember something along those lines)

kate51485

Yeah Stacks I think he has kids already, I can't remember how many or how many mothers though.

georgia_bride09

Stack, I love that you said "children's mothers" instead of baby mommas. Ha ha.

crfische

Jesus Martha!

Stackeye210

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_yikes-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:883751bb-080c-457a-a8bd-4a05c3889a00Post:a4d42041-70b7-4cd5-bbd5-2bc222cfbdfa">Re: Yikes!!!</a>:
[QUOTE]Stack, I love that you said "children's mothers" instead of baby mommas. Ha ha.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

The term "baby momma" irks me to no end!!!!  To me it's comparable to letting your boyfriend call you his "b*tch" or something equivalently degrading. 

TheSaltyPeanut

Train.Wreck.