I know the consensus on HM registries, but what about using cash gifts to help pay for or to upgrade your HM?
H and I weren't planning on going on one becuase money was tight, but now that we've received a generous amount of money as gifts, we're thinking we can afford to now.
Or should we use it for concrete things so that we can specifically thank them for helping us buy something?
Or does it really matter? I know I wouldn't mind if a couple used my monetary gift for their HM.