I know there is nothing I can do about this. Just a vent and we will have to see what happens. One of FI's gm said he might not be able to make it to our wedding. He's getting married a little over a month after we do and I know sh!t happens and expenses pile up, and its impossible to gauge where youll be financially a year in advance, I just wish he had said something sooner. I feel so bad for FI. I dont even care that sides will be uneven. Gm's FI said she knows I'll be mad that they're messing up the sides and wp order. That's not the issue at all. FI is just so bummed. They have literally known either their whole lives. They were born in they same hospital room. That's how their families know eachother. He was really looking forward to seeing gm again, our entire wp is coming from the east coast for our west coast wedding. Its tough and we so appreciate everyone that can be there. My parents keep saying that we need to replace him. Don't worry we won't, we know thats a huge faux pas. Hopefully he can make it. Apparently MIL called him or txted him and gave him an earful, so lets see what happens! Vent over. Thanks for reading/listening!

