My FMIL seems to think that not everyone needs to be accounted for bringing a guest. For example, her close friend is divorced and since she knows she won't be bringing anyone with her we don't have to put 'and guest' on her invitation. I think it's rude. Also, I think it's her way of trying to sneak another guest onto the list that I needed her to cut. The only people I think do not need a guest to be accounted for are two grandmothers who are windowed and do not plan on seeing anyone again. Has anyone encountered a similar situation? I think every 'and guest' should be assumed that they are coming until I hear back that they are not.
*spoiled to the bone*
