My BF and I were invited to his female friend's small, OOT wedding in almost a week. Her combo shower/b-party is Saturday night. Her MOH sent out those invites and stated there is no registry (they have enough stuff and will be moving shortly after) and the bride and groom don't need any gifts besides our presence, but we could get something cute/sassy if we wanted for the party (her words). I'm the type that doesn't show up somewhere without a gift, but without a registry or much guidelines, I'm not sure what is the proper etiquette here. Do BF and I get something for the shower/b-party AND wedding? Or just one gift? I don't feel right giving nothing aside from a card, so that's out.