ok so my fiance and i had agreed that we did not want to have every little moment video taped untill the day of the wedding. we are both pretty private people and we like to keep some of our special moments just that a special moment and not the next youtube sensation. my mom who recently started to watch vlogers on youtube wanted to video tap everything, my picking out my dress going to bridal shows the whole shibbang. it really makes me uncomfortable so i let her know and she got upset and started a huge arguement about it. then because my fiance is military and couldnt talk to her in person because he is overseas i have to inform her of how he felt about it. we tried to be nice and tell her that she could take as many pictures as she likes but videos are not what we want. she still gets mad because i wont let her videotape me and then tells her friends i refuse to allow her to take pictures as well. i dont what to do anymore. i hate to put this on here but i really need some help. i feel like she is over stepping some privacy lines and she refuses to accept our reasons for not wanting to be on video. any advice would be awesome.