You can say "I told you so." I got kicked out of the wedding party. A lot of you have been following this. CN: I confronted a bridezilla about outrageous expectations about shelling out money and time for her wedding without regard to any one. There is much more too it as I have been walking on eggshells for month ever since she asked my opinion on chinese finger traps as favors and I gave her a nice but honest answer. Then she gets mad every time I get asked to be on a blog or a website about weddings either for my wedding or a job. Didn't I know this year was about her wedding now?
Anyway, last night I received a nice little gem of an email. Here are some highlights:
"As you know, this is the most stressful yet the most happy time of my life, and I just don't think I can handle any added stress or drama from the people who are supposed to be running my wedding and making me feel like the princess I should be feeling like through this process."
"I'm sorry that you feel as though I haven't been organized enough, but I have a wedding to plan here and you had yours already. I have much more important things to worry about than how you are going to buy a stupid dress."
"Perhaps if you would get over your own wedding and start actually helping me with important things in mine like planning my shower I wouldn't feel you were so selfish. I am sorry I have to do this, but you are a bad friend and you have been transitioned to the guest list."
So yeaaaah. Like I said, dodged a bullet much?