I have a couple questions. I was invited to two out of state weddings with in 6 months of each other. One was back in November of 2011 and the next one is in April of this year. I couldn't attend the first cousin's November wedding, since Christmas was right around the corner, but a gift was sent. I'm thinking about going to the wedding in April. Should I go to the April wedding, even though I wasn't able to go to the other one? Should I not go to either and just send gifts so it doesn't look like I'm playing favorites. Lastly, will me not being in attendance to either wedding have consequences such as, them not coming to my wedding, which won't be for a few years? Any comments are greatly appreciated, thank you!