Ok so I know the etiquette on wedding showers...you don't invite guests to the shower unless they are invited to the wedding itself, but is there any etiquette on baby showers??
I have a friend from college that is a known cheap a$$. She is due in January and her baby shower is this weekend. We graduated nursing school together 6 years ago and we talk here and there, we are still decently close. We went to school and were friends with a group of girls (about 8 of us) and I am still pretty close with all of them, she has not talked to at least half of them since graduation day....until my wedding 4 months ago where they all sat together. But since my wedding I can say for almost certainty that she has not spoken to any of them. None of us even knew she was pregnant until about 2 months ago, and even then she only told me and 1 of the other girls.
Well I found out that she has invited ALL 8 of them to her shower...3 of them didn't even know she was pregnant until they opened the invite! Am I wrong or does this seem incredibly tacky? None of the girls really care and have all expressed their excitement for her and are probably all going to get her a gift, so its not a big deal and I would never say anything to her about it, but am I wrong for thinking she is totally being gift grabby and borderline rude?? thoughts?