I am going back and forth about inviting a specific family member and I was hoping to get an outside opinion. Two years ago, my grandmother died and ever since then my aunt has been cutting off all of the relationships she has with members of our family. I understand that she was grieving, and it was hard for her because she was my grandmother's caretaker. However, she has said some despicable things to my mother and due to those things they are no longer on speaking terms. She has also recently harshly cut off her relationship with my uncle and his wife, as well as her own adopted daughter. She has said some terrible things about our entire family, and I’m not sure how much worse the situation will get. I have been going back and forth about whether or not to invite her to the wedding. My fiancé does not want her there, and at this point my mother doesn’t really want her there either. She lives halfway across the country and I’m not sure she would attend even if she were to be invited. What should I do? *I know that we are not getting married for another 9 months, and that things could change before then. I just wanted to get an opinion from someone who is removed from the situation.*