We are trying to keep the rehearsal dinner as small as possible. Ideally we would like the wedding party, our grandparents, and parents only. The problem is that my aunt and FI's aunt are helping us decorate and I would feel bad not inviting them because they are going to a TON of trouble. Can I invite them without inviting the rest of the aunts and uncles? All the rest of the aunts and uncles are from out of town (and by that I mean 2 hours is the furthest anyone will drive) and won't be getting there until the next day for the wedding.