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Wedding Etiquette Forum

STD-Invitation-Wedding Gift

Hey all,

TWO qustions here

1) If someone already said "No" after receiving the Save-the-Date, do I still send an invitation?  My mom seems to think it is inappropriate to send an invitation if they already declined because she thinks I'm just asking for a wedding gift.  I thought it was just a rule that anyone who gets an STD gets an Inviation.  Help!

On a Similar Note....

2) In general, are you expected to send a gift no matter what, when you receive an invitation?  There are several people who I am extending an invitation to because I thought it was the right thing to do, but as I said above, my mom thinks it looks like I am fishing for gifts.  Not the case!  Help!  

Thanks all!!

-Karen

**Now everyone dreams of a love lasting and true But you and I know what this world can do So lets make our steps clear so the other may see I'll wait for you, and should I fall behind Will you wait for me**
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