Long Story Short- My cousin does not come around for any family gatherings unless he is throwing them. I figured he and his wife would not attend my wedding, but I sent an invite anyway. RSVP comes back yes they will attend however they have to leave by 6 to pick up their kids (no kids are invited to the wedding) Ceremony is at 3, cocktail hour is 5-6 then dinner/ dancing etc. Do I include them as attending in my final numbers and give them a place card..etc? Or do I not count them? Any advice would be helful! Thanks!