I have one of my closest friends as a bridesmaid for my wedding in August. (we are both seniors in college and are graduating in may) Lately she has been really stetchy and not inviting me out to places with our mutual friends when I was invited (she just didn't tell me). She asks me if I am going to the places as she is on her way out the door, this really hurts my feelings. To top it off, when I tell her about different things I am excited about for the wedding she always tells me the ideas are stupid (flat out) and doesn't offer suggestions on how to improve on the ideas or offer new ideas. Today I told her that it upset me that she says my ideas are stupid and she says "thats just how I am, I am cynical". She made fun of me for getting excited that my bridal shoes came in the mail (I wore them for a half hour) and she just doesn't seem interested in any wedding related things.
She seems to think that just because she bought her dress she is fine and she doesn't need to support me in any way. (also she keeps asking me if I am paying for various things like the dress, shoes, hair and makeup...so I had to have and awkward convo that I was not paying for those things). I feel like I made a mistake by asking her to be a bridesmaid and I regret doing so. I shouldn't have to feel that way about my friends. I want to ask her if she really wants to be a bridesmad but I'm afraid this is rude and she will want to end our friendship. I still want to be her friend and I love her as my friend. But she really sucks as a bridesmaid and I would rather not have her in my wedding party at this piont. What should I do? Has anyone experienced this as well??
Also we live together...