Rehersal Dinner

willow17oz

Hi Ladies,
I have never posted on this bored before, but this seems like the place to ask! 
So, I know that the bridal party and anyone involved in the wedding come to the rehersal and rehersal dinner.  I'm also inviting anyone from out of town as its kinda a rural area and I don't want them to have to find thiere own dinner/entertainment. 

So the question is: if you are invited to the dinner are you invited to the rehersal to?  It makes sense to me that you'd only come to dinnerr to cute down on confusion/not get to already see the whole wedding.  But I was just curious as to what the norm seemed to be. 

Thanks so much!!

JessAndTrav

We had several people that we invited to the RD that didn't come to the rehearsal because there was no need to have them there.

So, no, you don't have to have them attend both if they're not in the wedding.

PS: It's 'their' not 'thiere'

shellydiane820

They only need to attend the rehearsal if they are in the wedding.  The OOT guests can meet you at the dinner.

sucrets4

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_rehersal-dinner-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:99130c20-fe56-41f5-882e-67a46f8397cePost:9ae1cdce-a28b-461b-a294-86689b3c40c4">Re: Rehersal Dinner</a>:
[QUOTE]We had several people that we invited to the RD that didn't come to the rehearsal because there was no need to have them there. So, no, you don't have to have them attend both if they're not in the wedding.<strong> PS: It's 'their' not 'thiere'</strong>
Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

Jess, that's only the tip of the iceberg with this post.  She even spelled 'rehearsal' wrong.

janedoe1113a

People not included in the wedding, but are invited to the rehearsal dinner, just come to the dinner.  You don't need to provide them with the time or location of the rehearsal.

JessAndTrav

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_rehersal-dinner-3?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:99130c20-fe56-41f5-882e-67a46f8397cePost:4126c137-6730-4c8b-a919-74ae91f7e749">Re: Rehersal Dinner</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Rehersal Dinner : Jess, that's only the tip of the iceberg with this post.  She even spelled 'rehearsal' wrong.
Posted by sucrets4[/QUOTE]

A very valid point, my lovely Sucrets. However, I don't know that I've ever seen such a horrible spelling of "their."

It's like she couldn't decided which to use out of their and there, so she mixed the two and misplaced the 'i' for giggles.