Last winter, my family (mom, dad, two sisters, and me) attended the wedding of one of my childhood friends. Though the bride and I aren't close anymore, my mother and her mother are still good friends.
My mom co-hosted a shower for the bride, and our family gave her and her husband generous shower and wedding gifts. My mom also helped DIY some of the reception details (table numbers, menus, etc.)
It's been over a year and we still haven't gotten a thank-you note, or even a verbal expression of thanks. My mom is hurt after everything she did for the bride--she's trying to let it go but I know it bugs her. I'm a little surprised because the bride and her mother are both incredibly polite and kind, and I find it difficult to believe that the bride just wouldn't bother sending a thank-you note.
I'm so curious to know if the thank-you note got lost in the mail! There's probably no way for me to bring this up with the bride without seeming accusatory, right? Is the best thing to do just let it go?