Frist, thank you to everyone that gave their advice in the my last thread. However, I now have to decide whether to keep my date on July 21st or to change it. If I decide to keep it then it will be one week after my FH's brother's wedding and one week before my FH's cousin's wedding. Due to my FH's and my work schedule the only other time we could have it would be either August 4th (one week after the cousin's) or August 11th (this would be pushing it and not sure if we could have a decent honeymoon). We do want an outside wedding and live in the Pacific Northwest so the only months that are good are July and August.
My question is should I change it? My concern now is for the guests. Do you think having weddings back to back is bad? My worst fear is that some of the guests go to one wedding and then decide that I just saw them and don't come to our wedding. But I'm not sure if moving the date back a few weeks would fix my concern. What do you think I should do?