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UNINVITING THE NOW EX-WIFE OF A GROOMSMEN WHO HAS NOT RSVP'D OR RESPONDED TO PHONE CALLS, TEXT MESSA

So one of the groomsmen is going through a divorce.  We were going to still have his soon to be ex  go to the wedding but she never RSVP'd technically, we only counted her because he was going.  Myself, my MOH, my FSIL and my mom have all tried to get a hold of her by phone, email and text messages over the last few weeks, and she has failed to contact any of us. It seems that she only wants to go now to cause a ripple with her soon to be ex-husband.  This chick use to be my friend, but has done so many ruthless/ hurtful things over the years that are friendship is already non-existent.  I only invited her because she was married to the groomsmen.  They are now living in separate homes, and seeing other people.  I know it is against etiquette to uninvite someone, but I can see this chick getting physical with the groomsmen or acting out at my wedding so my mom is going to uninvite her.  We even invited her to the bridal and bachlorette party to be nice, and she never even responded.  What are your ladies thoughts?  I am six days out from my wedding and she is causing a massive amount of drama.  She went so far as to tell her soon to be ex that she was pissed at me for not asking her to be in the bridal party........even though she ruined our friendship years earlier......FYI- She was diagnosed with a personality disorder and refuses to take her medication or see a treatment provider reguarly.......

Re: UNINVITING THE NOW EX-WIFE OF A GROOMSMEN WHO HAS NOT RSVP'D OR RESPONDED TO PHONE CALLS, TEXT MESSA

  • Well thanks for the responses.  She did in fact show up, moved her assigned seat, drug a chair from one table to another and basically was a snot.  I did not let it bother me.  Our wedding was gorgeous, and memorable, and she did not get the pleasure of attention, like she so clearly wanted.  It's over with now.

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