Give it to me straight, ladies.
Yesterday, I get a call from my BM asking me if she can invite one of the GM's FIs to my bachelorette party on Friday. The b-party has been planned for 6 months and is just 6 girls, all of whom I've known for almost a decade. I really like the GM's FI, but I don't know her very well, and I'd also then have to invite all of the other GM's FIs, of which there are three. So I told her that I felt badly, but that I'd like to keep the guest list as-is. I found out later that this BM had already asked my MOH the same question and gotten the same answer, but oh well.
So tonight, FI invites the GM's FI nd two other girls to come to his bachelor party (which is the same night as mine). Now his bach party is a co-ed party, but none of the BMs or I are going. I'm just feeling really frustrated, because I feel like it makes me look like a jerk that I wouldn't let them come to my b-party, but now they're coming to FI's. I also feel like it's strange that there's now a co-ed event the weekend of the wedding, but the bride won't be there. I know FI meant well, but I'm annoyed that he's basically not having a bachelor party anymore because of this stuff. It's not like we can take the invitation back, but I feel like this is going to make me look like a major b.itch.
I got three hours of sleep last night, and the last two weeks have been a ride on the crazy train, so it's quite possible that I'm just upset over nothing. WDYT?