So FI's uncle is a minister who has agreed to marry us. He requires premarital counseling, but lives 10 hours away, so has sent us a list. We found a minister in the area that will counsel us. Of course, her church is about an hour away, but her residence is in the next town over from where we will, and she has suggested we use a local church's meeting room. My question is this, do I invite the minister who completes our counseling to our wedding? Also, do I make a donation to her church? What about the local church? I'm trying to keep the cost down, but I don't want to be rude. TIA