ok I will not put adults only on my invitation or RSVP card. that being said between our friends and extended family we have over 30 children under age 12. it is a backyard BBq and do not want that many children their. addressing invites to Mr. and Mrs. only will not work in my social circle ( just wont they are clue less and all about their kids) so I was thinking of this: address invitation to Mr. and Mrs. the card reads
M______________________
M_______________________
will attend
will not attend
just two lines - just two people- no insult? what do you think