Simple question. 90 person wedding. My FI is having his 3 best friends (not my brothers or my son) in his wedding party. I am having my 3 best friends (my son will give me away with my dad). I have asked my FSIL to do the one and only reading in our church service. I have met her 4, maybe 5 times, and everyone says she has always been very stand-off-ish with me, so we have, in 2.5 years, not become friends. Both she and FMIL are insulted and upset I have not asked her to be a bridesmaid. Maybe in the old days it was this way, maybe if my brothers and son were on the grooms side I could even see the upset. The reading is a big deal to me. They dont care and are not speaking to me. Am I way out of line?