So I want to do an adult only wedding, but at the same time have my daughter be the only kid there. Does that seem so wrong? I've never been married (not even to her dad). My daughter is 6 and will be almost 7 at the time of the wedding. She is so excited to be the flower girl, and she's used to being the only kid in my family anyway, and she'll be the only kid in my in-law's family as well. we're keeping the wedding small, only immediate family and close friends we see/talk to almost everyday.