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Need opinions-Received Save the Date, haven't received invitation

Hi Ladies--
My cousin is getting married in 5 weeks.  We got her save the date several months ago and I let her know when we booked our flights/accomodations.

My parents received their invite to the wedding 2 weeks ago (they live 20 minutes away).  My mail carrier is notorious for delivering things late/losing things in the mail.  We still haven't received ours.  The invite requires food selections to be sent back with the RSVP

She is the sweetest person in the world  and I highly doubt she would have sent us a save the date but not an invite.  Since we are flying across the country (Cleveland to Seattle) to get to the wedding, I do want to make sure we are still invited.

Do you think it would be completely out of line to call her and let her know we have not yet received ours?  I don't want to be presumptuous and rude but at the same time I want to make sure we are still invited.
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