NC Ladies (And LDY!)

MyUserName1

Let's plan another NC GTG.  I was thinking somewhere in Burlington might be good because it's pretty much right in between the Triad and Triangle...

When are you moving here, LDY?

StefffiC

I'd love to come!

LDYGTR13

Our truck is hitting the road on 6/30 and we should be official High Point residents as of 7/1! And I say YES to a GTG. I need frands. I think I know where Burlington is basically though (and I have a GPS...and I'll steal Aleigh) so yes. Y'all just hold your horses til I can get there!

LDYGTR13

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[QUOTE]I'd love to come!
Posted by StefffiC[/QUOTE]
Negative, ghost rider <div>
</div><div>(I believe I was corrected once that it's ghost RIDER not ghost WRITER as I always though - Amy maybe?) </div>

StefffiC

LDYGTR - I work about 25 minutes from High Point. PM me and let me take you out to lunch when you get moved.

I love the Dillard's Clearance outlet in High Point. It's freakin' incredible!

LDYGTR13

Don't take this the wrong way, Stefffi...but I don't know and or trust you enough yet to meet up. That sounds awful, but you get what I'm saying. 

Maybe once you've been here a little while I'll feel a bit better about it. I dont want to get maimed and/or murdered when I'm just now moving to NC. That would suck. H can't take care of the dogs and cat by himself. 

LDYGTR13

I feel like a bytch now, kids. 

MyUserName1

Its okay, LDY.   You're not a biiitch.

No offense, Stefffi, but how about the next one, instead?  We don't know you yet, whereas most of the NC girls are RL friends already.

ArynBaker

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[QUOTE]Our truck is hitting the road on 6/30 and we should be official High Point residents as of 7/1! And I say YES to a GTG. I need frands. :( I think I know where Burlington is basically though (and I have a GPS...and I'll steal Aleigh) so yes. Y'all just hold your horses til I can get there!
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

<div>That's perfect timing for me! I don't move to Raleigh until the 21st anyway. I'm going the complete opposite direction that first weekend in July. Is the second or third weekend good for everyone? </div>

MyUserName1

LDY YGPM

StefffiC

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[QUOTE]Its okay, LDY.   You're not a biiitch. No offense, Stefffi, but how about the next one, instead?  We don't know you yet, whereas most of the NC girls are RL friends already.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

That's fine - it does seem unfriendly and unkind to post this on the public board instead of handing it by PM or facebook since you're friends already.

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NC Ladies (And LDY!) : That's fine - it does seem unfriendly and unkind to post this on the public board instead of handing it by PM or facebook since you're friends already.
Posted by StefffiC[/QUOTE]

I apologize, I didn't mean to make you feel that way.  I'm actually not FB friends (yet?!?) with two NC girls, so this seemed the  most convenient way.  I didn't mean to be hurtful.

chelseamb11

I'm nowhere near NC, but Muni, I love your sig pic. I've been meaning to tell you that

MyUserName1

Thank you, Chels!

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NC Ladies (And LDY!) : Negative, ghost rider  (I believe I was corrected once that it's ghost RIDER not ghost WRITER as I always though - Amy maybe?) 
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

Ghost writer is for books. Ghost Rider is Nic Cage.

ahhhitsshannyn

What if you put up a sig picture steffi? It really helps people get to know you for some reason. I mean it's still a month away at least, and I have certainly seen new people become friends quicker than that.

LDYGTR13

Shannon - great point! Steffi, a picture would really help! We just like to "get to know people" a little more before GTGs and what not. I'm sorry!

StefffiC

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[QUOTE]What if you put up a sig picture steffi? It really helps people get to know you for some reason. I mean it's still a month away at least, and I have certainly seen new people become friends quicker than that.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

I actually don't know how, I would guess I could link them from my webshots account?

ErinG93

Try the sticky on CC. It should tell you how to do a sig picture.

StefffiC

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[QUOTE]Try the sticky on CC. It should tell you how to do a sig picture.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

You can't link from Webshots, but Photobucket isn't blocked at work.

I now have pictures. ;)

ahhhitsshannyn

That is a cute shot! That looks like a really awesome place to take pictures.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]Its okay, LDY.   You're not a biiitch. No offense, Stefffi, but how about the next one, instead?  We don't know you yet, whereas most of the NC girls are RL friends already.
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

Are you effing kidding me? This is ridiculous. If you are RL friends, then contact them outside of TK if you are going to be all exclusive. This is really shitty, IMO.

StefffiC

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[QUOTE]That is a cute shot! That looks like a really awesome place to take pictures.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

Thank you! It's an old cotton mill near our house.

I think it's pathetic that I have a photo of Star on my desk and none of John. LOL

LDYGTR13

aww that's cute, Steffi!!

Snippylynn

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: NC Ladies (And LDY!) : That's fine - it does seem unfriendly and unkind to post this on the public board instead of handing it by PM or facebook since you're friends already.
Posted by StefffiC[/QUOTE]
I totally agree with you Steffi. I'm so sorry they did this to you.

Guys, I have met up with people who I don't know from Adam and it's what you HAVE to do to make friends.

PARTICULARLY assy on your part LDY as you are here saying you need friends and Steffi was very kind to suggest lunch with you when you get moved.

You guys are being assholes.

Snippylynn

Steffi, you're being seriously classy in not holding this against them. I would. Forever and ever.

marriedfilingjointly

I'm so in.  Can we go to Macaroni Grill?  

[Deleted User]

Steffi, I live in Winston and work in High Point. I'll have lunch with you.

LDYGTR13

Hey, I agree - it was douchey of me. I said so. But I don't understand what's so different about us saying "hey look, we don't know you well enough just yet..." than the DC girls saying the same thing. Which they have...and I didn't think anyone got up in arms about it? 

I DO need friends, but at what point am I not supposed to be wary of people who just came onto the scene? 

The "negative ghost rider" thing was bitchy, and I'm sorry Steffi, I was trying to get my feelings about it out there before it got too out of control. If I feel like I know Steffi enough in the next two weeks to meet up with her (and she forgives me!) then I'd be okay with it...but like I said...I'm just confused as to when I'm allowed to be cautious and when I'm not?

marriedfilingjointly

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[QUOTE]Steffi, I live in Winston and work in High Point. I'll have lunch with you. :)
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

<div>Do you need me to back you up in case she's this chick and tries to make you touch her rubber peen? </div><div>
</div><div><a href="http://hypervocal.com/news/2012/sex-crime-woman-poses-boy-tricks-girl/" rel="nofollow">http://hypervocal.com/news/2012/sex-crime-woman-poses-boy-tricks-girl/</a> </div>

[Deleted User]

You could have easily postponed and pussyfooted around the lunch topic with her until you know her better.